Who figured this part of our life & relationship would become so trying?
It just doesn’t seem right… or fair. This part of our life is supposed to get easier from here on in. We’ve done the “hard yards” and it’s not supposed to go this way.
Hi, Peter and Linda Butler here.
We know the frustration, the helplessness and the emotional roller-coaster ride you’re probably going through. We know exactly where you’re at.
How? It’s been our journey for the past 10 years too so we know from personal experience.


Letter to Dr Cabot
"This is a letter I sent to Dr cabot 12months ago in shear frustration and desperate for help." Dear Dr Cabot, My name is Linda Butler, I am 50yrs old and I live in a suburb south of Perth Western Australia. In July 2000 I had a Hysterectomy due to having Endometriosis my left ovary was also … [Read More...]

Is this for real?
I don't believe we're doing this. Laying down the bones of our life and the journey so far. At the age of 43 I had a hysterectomy and my doctor assured me that I wouldn't have to worry about menopause for another 5yrs, WRONG!!!!!!!!!! ... for the next 6 months I thought I was having a major break … [Read More...]


The “Communication Channel” went static… we lost “Connection”…
How ironic. Sitting with Linda at about 9.00 pm last night showing her how to make her first post and the "communication channel" between us went static. Trying to revive the "line" and it just got worse. Must have been a "solar flare" situation because no matter what I said the static got so bad … [Read More...]

Is this bravery or stupidity?
I'm not quite sure whether I'm brave or simply stupid but either way I feel like I'm putting myself at risk. If you know me and see me in the street it could be embarrassing but I've come to terms with that and am prepared to take that risk. Why? 'Cause hopefully even if this makes a difference for … [Read More...]