HELP!!!! My wife is 49 and despite her denial (to me but not others) is showing all the signs of menopause.

She went from loving passionate partner to don’t touch me, I don’t know you any more, I am not interested in what you think.

The mood swings are hard to cope with one moment I have my old partner back the next I am with this stranger.

The other night she said she was hot so opened all the bedroom windows, it was blowing a gale outside and the curtans were just about horizontal. I suggested we might compromise only to be told I was selfish. I ended up sleeping on the couch so I did not freeze to death. As for intimacy of any kind forget it.

I have read everything I can to better understand the issues and when I told her she said I was obsessive,not thank you for caring. In someways it’s a bit like having another teenager in the house but more intense.

I was surprised at the lack of internet sites to assist men understand menapause from a man’s perspective, either educational or lighthearted. Yours is the only one I have found.

I note you are putting an E book together but If you are still developing the site maybe an online support group from men would also be a great help. It would also provide lots of material for your book. I also couldn’t find any info from a womans perspective,about relationship issues there is lots about symptoms but not a personal perspective from a woman.

This is doing my head in I think its time for the mens shed therapy session.lol

davidb